Bringing Home Baby: How to Prep Your Toddler for a New Sibling
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Welcoming a new baby is one of the most magical times in family life, but it can also be a big adjustment for your toddler. Whether you’re growing your family through birth, fostering, or adoption, this guide is here to help you make the transition smoother (and a little less dramatic 😉).
Because yes, while those newborn snuggles are heavenly, sometimes your toddler has other ideas... like shouting:
“I don’t like baby. Take baby back to the hospital! ALL DONE new baby!”
Oof. Toddlers are creatures of routine, and sharing the spotlight can be a big, confusing deal. But with a little prep and a lot of love, you can help your child welcome their new sibling with open arms.
🌼 Step 1: Prep Your Toddler Before Baby Arrives
You’ve generally got nine whole months to gently prepare your little one. Use them wisely! The more familiar your toddler is with what’s coming, the less anxious they’ll feel when baby finally arrives.
📚 Read Together
Reading “big brother” or “big sister” books is one of the easiest (and sweetest) ways to start the conversation. As you read, connect what’s on the page to your own family’s story:
“Look, she has a baby in her tummy just like Mummy does!”
“Daniel Tiger is meeting his baby sister at the hospital. You’ll meet yours here at home!”
Repetition helps toddlers feel confident and in control, even when things change.
💬 Keep Them in the Know
Toddlers love to know what’s happening next. Talk about what to expect in simple steps and role-play it with dolls or toys:
Who will look after them while you’re at the hospital
What baby will do when they come home (crying, sleeping, feeding)
How they can help or watch safely
The more you discuss it, the more comfortable they’ll be when baby makes their grand entrance.
💝 Step 2: Introduce Them the Right Way
The first meeting matters! When your toddler meets the baby for the first time, avoid holding the baby in your arms — keep the baby in a bassinet, swing, or capsule. That way, your toddler doesn’t feel like they’ve lost their special place in your embrace.
You can also turn the moment into something exciting and positive by doing a gift exchange:
🎁 Your toddler chooses a gift for the baby — maybe a soft toy or rattle.
🎁 “Baby” gives a gift back — perhaps a Big Dreams Bundle
It’s a simple but powerful way to help your toddler feel proud, included, and connected to their sibling from day one.
🌙 Step 3: Navigating Life with Two
Once baby is home, reality sets in and so do the emotions. Your toddler might test boundaries, seek extra cuddles, or regress in behaviour (yes, that can happen). Remember, this is normal.
Here are a few gentle strategies that make a big difference:
Special one-on-one time: Even 10 minutes a day where it’s just you and them can refill their love tank.
Involve them safely: Let them hand you a nappy, choose a baby outfit, or sing during feed times.
Acknowledge their feelings: “It’s hard when baby cries, isn’t it? I miss playing with you too.”
And most importantly, go easy on yourself. You’re doing something huge, and it’s okay if things feel messy for a while.
💫 You’ve Got This
At Big Dreams Club, we believe parents are superheroes. With patience, empathy, and a little planning, you’ll guide your toddler through this change beautifully.
You’ve got this, beautiful parent. Your family’s next chapter is just beginning ❤️